Stupidity means Stupidity in Swahili

in REAL-lationships.

STOP. and assess things objectively.

1. di pa naman kayo mag-on na formally

2. di pa naman kyo magkakilala talaga

3. di pa umiinit ang friendship nyo

-from John Maalalahanin

5 tall glasses of long island (without coke)

first, lemme greet yer mothers a HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY today.

am here at my hometown, Indang celebrating the Feast Day of our Patron Saint, Saint Gregory the Great. I invited all of my close friends (well the ones with numbers on my cell, sorry for the others who wasn't been invited, because I lost my phone together with your contact details) just send me your contacts again so that i can invite you for next year. *wink*

and guess what? no one came. too bad. nag-aksaya lang ako ng load. crap.

enough of the Fiesta Siesta... lemme write what am supposed to write...

In LOVE, you need to spend time with your LOVED ONE right? but what if your LOVED ONE doesn't want to spend time with you? (LABO NOH?) lemme elaborate. there are people who wish they could spend a lotta time with their sweethearts, their beh beh, their munchkins, hunny bunch, but there are others who wish that they will not see each other. but they love each other. ang hirap talaga i-explain.

how can you say that you love the person if you don't wanna see her? if you don't wanna text her? the worst that can happen is that when she texts you saying: "sorry matagal kasi ako napahinga sa relationship, hindi ako sanay na may pinagpapaalaman at pinagsasabihan" well sana nung una pa lang hindi na niya tinuloy right?

then I ask myself, why are you still holding on? if your getting hurt? if your miserable? and I answered myself, because LOVE is all about sacrifices. (tindi ng tama ko sa kokote) lintik na sacrifice 'yan daig ko pa ang sumali sa Death March.

or maybe, just maybe she is still not ready to "have a relationship" but she's ready to be "in to one"? did you get me? ako kasi hindi. ang labo talaga. yun bang KAYO pero parang hindi kayo. you call each other pumpkin and hunnybunch but you can't feel it?

there are others who complain na kulang na kulang sa time. pero itong sinasabi ko sobra sobra naman daw ako sa time? grabe? labo!

BREATHE... BREATHE...

I mean, baka "I'M IN LOVE WITH THE CONCEPT OF LOVE" na naman? the heck.

but seriously, am loving this. and am holding on.

what I need now is 5 tall glasses of LONG ISLAND without coke topped with lemon and cherry. QUICK! I don't need to feel this. this is what love can do for me. it makes me laugh at the start, then hurts me, then leaves me.

read & contemplate :)

here's the answer to the question on what to prefer: the one who loves you
or the one you love... this is also for those who are waiting for the
person they love to love them back openly, to those who are looking for
love and those who know that their love is not meant to be...

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Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love, we fail to
recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many
beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to be enslaved by
our own selfish concerns. Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of
words, for you will find rewarding happiness not with the man you love but
the man whom loves you more.

The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far
enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the
love deep within your being. To let go of someone doesn't mean you have to
stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find his own
happiness without expecting him to come back. Letting go is not just
setting the other person free but it is also setting yourself free from all
bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith,
and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom
in bearing it. You may found peace in just loving someone from a distance
not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life
but can never give enough room for us to grow. We can all survive with just
beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with
open acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and
beautiful and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that
person. This feeling soon becomes a part of our everyday lives and
eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.

The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels
nothing more for us than just a friendship... don't be so bitter about it!
For it is a kind of FRIENDSHIP that will last for a LIFETIME!!! We start
our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our
efforts are still unrewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you love. What you need to learn is how to
accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself.
Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love to
someone more deserving. Don't let your heart run your life, be sensible,
and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but to
reason as well.

Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone
better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love that doesn't mean that you
failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make sure that the tears wash away
the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you. Let go of
yesterday and love will find its way back to you.

And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a
lifetime. "When I lost you, I was the one who loved you most, but between
us you lost more. For someday I can love someone the way that I loved you
but you will never be loved again the way that I did."

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Pay attention to what you read. After you read this, you will know the
reason it was sent to you! People come into your life for a reason, a
season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know
what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON. . . It is usually to meet a need
you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to
provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally,
or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there
for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your
part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to
bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk
away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must
realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is
done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move
on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to
share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you
laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give
you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build
upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept
the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind
but friendship is clairvoyant.

if u luv me, let me know; if u don't, let me go...

life... parang buhay...

I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken -- and I'd rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken places as long as I lived. Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart. Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing.

Enjoy life. Don't let anyone ruin it.